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		<title>Remembering the Affair to Remember &#8211; NZ Conference</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Back from my conference marathon &#8211; the NZ conference has just finished and I&#8217;m now, officially, shattered. Think this conference was harder mainly due to the fact that I was the Registrar and was running around stressing that I had everything right. Was not helped by the fact that my useless spreadsheet skills had mucked &#8230; <a href="https://www.jackieashenden.com/remembering-the-affair-to-remember-nz-conference/" class="more-link">Continue reading<span class="screen-reader-text"> "Remembering the Affair to Remember &#8211; NZ Conference"</span></a></p>
The post <a href="https://www.jackieashenden.com/remembering-the-affair-to-remember-nz-conference/">Remembering the Affair to Remember – NZ Conference</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.jackieashenden.com">Jackie Ashenden - Romance Author</a>.]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_H0KtrDl77uA/THGTLjnDF7I/AAAAAAAAAPk/6jC38gVmPYc/s1600/IMG_0908.JPG"><img decoding="async" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_H0KtrDl77uA/THGTLjnDF7I/AAAAAAAAAPk/6jC38gVmPYc/s200/IMG_0908.JPG" alt="" border="0"></a>Back from my conference marathon &#8211; the NZ conference has just finished and I&#8217;m now, officially, shattered. Think this conference was harder mainly due to the fact that I was the Registrar and was running around stressing that I had everything right. Was not helped by the fact that my useless spreadsheet skills had mucked up some of the pitch times&#8230; Argh!! Anyway, highlights&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.janeporter.com/">Jane Porter</a> gave a workshop on using your own experiences in your writing and also spoke on the importance of emotion in your stories. Weren&#8217;t we lucky?? She is one fabulous woman, not to mention incredibly honest about her own life. I don&#8217;t know if I&#8217;d be comfortable talking about my divorce with a bunch of strangers but she made everyone choke up when she did. I overcame my shyness to say hello (oh, okay, Maisey made me) but not enough to get her to hold Hoo while I took a photo. <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f642.png" alt="🙂" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>
<p>Another big highlight was the wonderful <a href="http://natalie-anderson.blogspot.com/">Natalie Anderson&#8217;s </a>workshop on writing great love scenes. Now, I like writing love scenes, I&#8217;ve been told I do them moderately well, and I thought I probably didn&#8217;t need to learn anything about them. Oh the arrogance! Natalie gives great workshop and boy did I learn some things that although I kind of knew intellectually already, I suddenly &#8216;got&#8217; in a way I hadn&#8217;t before! Does that make sense? There was a particular piece of advice that clicked for me and that was about trying to think of one word that sums up the whole love scene. I over complicate things terribly so thinking of one word made it suddenly seem a whole lot simpler.  And that word is the emotional underpinning for the scene itself. Your characters don&#8217;t just involve their bodies in the scene, it&#8217;s thinking of how they feel during it.  It&#8217;s not just about desire. Are they scared? Are they anxious? Are they relieved? And if so, how does this affect the way they make love? I&#8217;ve been struggling with my current WIP, wanting the love scene to go in a certain way and it&#8217;s been difficult because I suddenly realised during Natalie&#8217;s workshop that I&#8217;m forcing them to make love in a way they wouldn&#8217;t because emotionally they&#8217;re not ready for it.  Woohoo! Of course, it means more rewriting but that&#8217;s fine. Hehe.</p>
<p>What else? I met the very generous and lovely <a href="http://www.rachelbailey.com/">Rachel Bailey</a> who gave me lots of fabulous encouragement and advice &#8211; can&#8217;t wait to read her book! I also pitched to Dianne Moggy who told me to enter the story into the New Voices comp and was very encouraging about working with an editor.</p>
<p>There was heaps more but my brain has reached overload point and I probably need to go somewhere quiet and have a wee lie down (not to mention unpack my goodie bag!). <img src="https://s.w.org/images/core/emoji/17.0.2/72x72/1f642.png" alt="🙂" class="wp-smiley" style="height: 1em; max-height: 1em;" /></p>The post <a href="https://www.jackieashenden.com/remembering-the-affair-to-remember-nz-conference/">Remembering the Affair to Remember – NZ Conference</a> first appeared on <a href="https://www.jackieashenden.com">Jackie Ashenden - Romance Author</a>.]]></content:encoded>
					
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